glad his irritation didn't last long (you didn't respond to him right? and that helped). He's really put himself between a rock and a hard place, so even though he was slamming things, don't take it personal. I have a feeling he's not as mad at you as you think, but he's mad at himself too...otherwise he wouldn't have sent the nice text. And great thing that he brought himself current, although with some attitude, he still did the right thing. He's just showing you with his actions that he's frustrated. And, it seems to me, because of 1st exW's control, your the only person he could have any leeway with..but don't ever ever let that happen, because then he will keep trying to do that with you, and you've done great already saying no 3 times. good job.

hope you have a great time at the meeting and learn a lot.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."