There is still some sadness, but there are exciting things in my new life. And freedom I gave up, not in a good way, to W
One thing I thought I was waiting for was to not want to be with W anymore, and then I thought I would be ready to move on without her. My IC told me today that us LBSs may never totally get to that point, but we get to the point where we respect and love ourselves enough where we realize it is the only choice, and that there are too many 'only if' statements associated with the other path (staying with WAW who is content to be in limbo).
Stay strong GIMA - I am right with you if not a half-step behind. I am updating the D papers I filled out before and will file in conjunction with setting up mediation most likely some time in January.
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline
