You know what AW, your D is an adult- maybe not to you lol, but she is a big girl. And I think that her father needed to hear this from her. Its not that surprising that he reacted the way that he did. Right now anyonewho disagrees with him and what hes doing will be a bad guy. He needs to be told that he is hurting her, it would have absolutely no effect if you said it, but Ill bet that it hit him hard coming from her.

Have you tried to talk to your regular doctor about it? Even if you dont have a regular doctor, almost all clinics will take tricare, and any doctor will write you a referral, most regular docs have very little training in psychology, so they will write you a referral, maybe even recommend someone if you ask for it.

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...