Sounds like you are doing much better. Once you recognize the difference in how you handle things you know that even if H isn't making the necessary changes, you are. And that's what matters right now. If H recognizes them too, it may give him that boost in the butt to follow in your footsteps. You're doing great!
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14