i havent since last night ... but today he contacted my doughter and she whent off on him i mean off i told her not to but she said mom sorry im tierd of him doing us wrong ...
but i told her two wrongs dont make it right... he did what he did to me he did not care about me that he loved her and only her...
that he dosent have to help me only her and so on that he loved me but he was not in love with me ...
she realy realy tried to but him in his shoes but she couldnt belve how her dad changed with me and her so much he told her ...
that where is the respect for him from her she said he lost that long ago when he egnord her like hes doing to me know ...
he said that shes just like ur mother... and that she should respect him that his her dad and no mater what happends he loves her....
but she said to him i dont care cuz u dont care about my mother why should i care about it u say u love her still thow but u dont care so know she cant go to school cuz u wont help her ...
so what now u dont want to help us if u two get splet up.... him oooo ill help u but i dont need to help her .... her yeah but shes my mother and shes going to provid for me while im in colage so u wont help her..... so she can help me and so on its whent.... on for 1hr
she cried she had so much anger she want to tell him off... and me cring for seing this ....
how he tells he he didnt care about me and what happends to me ...
i was hart broken so so so much .... he said i can do it on my own to get another job just like everyone else... she said ooo yeahhh now u got the easy way out and ur in the army and know what forget about mom....
her dreams and mine to i guess.... him ooooo not u u can always have ur dreams she said aaaaaa no dad thats my mom and i would have to help her something u as her husdand and my dad dont want to do ....
and more more more .... he realy was so tence but he keeped on saying i dont care about ur mother thats not his responsibility that she was ....
i feel a little better knowing that he cares for his girl but talking to her like a friend and not a fother... but well im so hurt very hurt.....
and she is to she told him that he didnt even try to work things out with me as a family ....
he didnt say anything....
Me: 35 yrs H: 35 yrs D: 18 yrs Married: 21 yrs H is over seas : July. 2009, "not happy now..confused" "don't know what I want" "I love you, but not in love with you" Currently: confused and lonely