Yes, you still need to be mysterious. It is the law of human behavior.My friends here on DB forum have gently and persistently talked me into doing it but I have been afraid!
Also, expect to have to wait 2-3 months to see a change on his end. He has been in the A abou 6-7 months now? It is getting closer to ending, I bet!
And I was so intimidated to give you my 2 cents because of all the experienced Vets who are helping you!
Last edited by newmama; 12/18/0908:27 PM.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004