Yes, you still need to be mysterious. It is the law of human behavior.My friends here on DB forum have gently and persistently talked me into doing it but I have been afraid!

Also, expect to have to wait 2-3 months to see a change on his end. He has been in the A abou 6-7 months now? It is getting closer to ending, I bet!

And I was so intimidated to give you my 2 cents because of all the experienced Vets who are helping you!

Last edited by newmama; 12/18/09 08:27 PM.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004