but how do I get her to understand that. Do I just flat out tell her.
"W, I understand that you are feeling unsure. You are free to come home if you want but you must cut off all contact with OM if you do."
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement