Originally Posted By: patpat
but how do I get her to understand that. Do I just flat out tell her.


"W, I understand that you are feeling unsure. You are free to come home if you want but you must cut off all contact with OM if you do."


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."