Pearl, Yes, I do think she needs to talk to an IC, but W is also one of the most bullheaded individuals to walk the planet so if it's not her idea, it ain't gonna happen.
Like I said to Rocked, hormones could be an issue. I might suggest sometime soon she goes and see's a Dr as she is approaching mentapause and it would be good for her to get a check up.
And I was thinking about the lingerie thing after you mentioned it in a prior post. I do think I'll buy her a hot bra/panty set for Christmas and see what that does.
She does know I love her body. I compliment her on it all the time. In fact, sometimes I think that might be the problem because she hears it so much she thinks I've got some other motive. Now I'm a guy, so sometimes I am making those comments cause...well...you know, but not all the time.
And she does have those undies buried in the bottom of her drawer. I've been thinking about just throwing them away and when she asks, tell her I threw them away a while ago...that is, if she even figures it out.
I don't know, that might not be the way to go. Something to think about.
Thanks for the comments. I appreciate it.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.