First Piecing Thread

[Hope4us]

Rocked,

No problem. Her A has been over for about a year and a half, but it's only been about 8 months or so since I began to see her start to figure it out. Yes, she was in deep. Late August is when she told me she'd F'd up and was sorry although just not too long ago she told me she realized probably back in April she wanted to stay but didn't know how to say it to me.

As far as our sex life prior to the A....probably a couple times a week, some times more, some times less. Pretty decent. But she never had a problem letting go before and I never heard her say she didn't feel sexy before this mess.

Don't get me wrong, she'll let go now. In fact, we've had some of the hottest sex of our marriage in the last year. But it's mainly when we're out of town or when she's had a few drinks and isn't THINKING about stuff. That's what makes me think the guilt is killing her.

And yes, I've thought about the hormonal changes. And she is VERY thin. I know that can affect a womans drive also. Now I'm not going to tell her to gain weight cause she likes who she is and she looks damn hot, but it could be part of it although I truly believe she's dealing with the recent demons and that could be coupled with things that have happened in her past.

Thanks for the comments. I appreciate them.