I have never been to AA. I am aware of the 12 step program though and to me, that is really just another aspect of making goals and completing them.
So some form of *that* might be helpful, no? If AA is not your choice then how about some other form of that?
My C is tough. He does not fool around and requires total dedication. I guess the concept he follows is like AA. Mapping out steps then helping you create your own. That doesn't sound so bad, right?
I actually LOVE C'ing now as it really challenges me.