Aver says she is Miss Independent. I think you need to remove the 'IN' from it. Make sure you read the 3 threads she has started. I think co dependency issues with commitment issues. I feel this is an issue that Aver has danced around for awhile. I understand that this is a conundrum.
Quote from Jane Austen's Emma “Why should I understand that, or anything else?” asked the girl. “Don’t bother my head by asking conundrums, I beg of you. Just let me discover myself in my own way.”
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!