You are still under legal financial obligation to your family. If you'd prefer, we could proceed with a S or D and let the courts decide what your specific financial obligations are. Let me know, and I will retain council.
Serenity
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
For those of you that know the hell I go through every 2 weeks I would appreciate some insight on what to say (or not say) please.
Say nothing, he can figure it out. He will get nasty no matter which route you take. You have done nothing wrong. It's a consequence of his behavior.
Answer in a day or two when he calms down.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Two opposite responses and I thank you SDF as well as Coach...
SDF - Your response would probably be the most logical one to take however I admit I am scared of the response that comes from that. I don't want a divorce and I am not sure I am ready to push him into it (we are already separated).
Coach - Your response was the same one I felt when I received his email. He is mad I know because I took out more then I normally do though still less then 1/2.
I am going to sit on this for a day or two and then I may or may not respond. That "feels" right.
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
I am going to sit on this for a day or two and then I may or may not respond. That "feels" right.
That sounds like a good plan.
Sorry, nothing inspirational from Rick Warren or Dr. Gary Chapman today...
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
I like posting stuff from outside the forums to the MWD Twitter thread or the Prayer Circle -- it helps to keep new and interesting ideas and opinions coming in...
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
You should not be going through this every two weeks. Stand up for your rights.
Sing it Bob...
Get up, stand up! (jah, jah! ) Stand up for your rights! (oh-hoo! ) Get up, stand up! (get up, stand up! ) Don't give up the fight! (life is your right! ) Get up, stand up! (so we can't give up the fight! ) Stand up for your rights! (lord, lord! ) Get up, stand up! (keep on struggling on! ) Don't give up the fight! (yeah! )
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"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
