(((Luv)))) I'm only gonna say this for now... please listen to G. He is really trying to help you. Your hurt and anger is blinding you to what might actually help your M... and you! Yes, you have every right to your hurt and anger, but acting on them only hurts you and your M. The DB principles feel almost "wrong" sometimes... they go against what we feel entitled to as the "wronged" spouse. But, they are WHAT WORKS! If there is a chance of saving your M you have to do what WORKS, not what feels fair or right. Make sense? I can't remember... have your read DB or DR?
