Can I save my marriage?

[Ready2Change]

Missed opportunity:

...." Why won't you hug me? What's wrong?"

There was your opening for your "I have been doing some thinking and here is what I have decided" speech...

There IS another woman. Bank on it.

Hi Sweetie,

There will be another opportunity for the "I've decided" speech. I would like to suggest you watch for the opportunity and take it.

If it is OW or something else is irrelevant. H is making irresponsible decisions. I would suggest you assume it is OW based on the insight of the wise people on this website. When the truth becomes clear in the future, making this assumption now will make this any other possibility easy to handle.....Just my 2 cents.

HUGS