Remember that she is in LIMBO, too. So your efforts to free the R from this holding pattern is a)loving to yourself b)loving to her c)leadership. You'll have to have a stout heart and stiff upper lip ~ pretend you're British! Haha!
Cheers ~ Greek
"Minding the pedestrians Hyacinth.."
Thanks Greek. The part I am having a bit of trouble with is being loving to her. What does that mean, other than treat her with respect and compassion? Is it forging ahead with splitting this and D while doing it in a way that is not motivated by anger?