Remember that she is in LIMBO, too. So your efforts to free the R from this holding pattern is a)loving to yourself b)loving to her c)leadership. You'll have to have a stout heart and stiff upper lip ~ pretend you're British! Haha!
Cheers ~ Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08