Originally Posted By: CityGirl
I am attracted to men that are on top of things, confident, able to find solutions and use resources and don't see everything in such a black and white fashion. I don't care if they are a garbage man or the CEO of a company.

Each month I type out a goal sheet but I break the goals down this way:

Business Goals
Financial Goals
Personal Goals

Then, for each category I add sub categories. That way I don't have an overwhelming list of "to do's" and things are far more manageable.

I only recently started doing this (as in the last year) and it has made a HUGE difference in my life.


I have to put a plug in for David Allen's Getting Things Done. It's a very good system for staying organized.

My system has taken a beating the past few weeks, between work and my private life, but I plan to sit down and get all of my lists and to-dos caught up before the end of the year.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."