Well, I think I got a good sign. EX called me at work, He is not allowed to use the phone, they took his phone away that was in his office. So he has to sneak somewhere to call and he called me at work to ask me if I could call the eye dr. because yesterday there was a message on the machine tht he didn't understand. I said sure. Funny thing is, I am seeing him tonight after I drop our D to dance and it's his insurance, he has the # to the dr.s office, since he had to sneak this call anyway, why didn't he just call himself? of wait the 4 hours until we see eachother after dance class??? So I don't think I blew it. I just hope he is not doing all this just because of our daughter, cuase that would really bite for me and our daughter!