Hi Britt, I've taken a few days off from here, but I think I'm caught up. I just want to offer understanding and support. My H does the same thing - he makes all sorts of plans without one word to me. He just assumes that I'll be taking care of our DD. It's incredibly selfish.
You've worked on GAL and so have I. Yet, here we are still being dumped on - it sucks. Our H's live like single men unless they have nothing better to do - then for a short time we become a priority. It's very, very hurtful.
I don't really have advice, but I do care and I totally relate. Hugs to you. : )
Me: 34 H: 34 DD: 3 M: 8 yrs H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you" PA Bomb: April 5, 2010