Partner left after 9 yrs - 18months on, reunited !

[AliSuddenly]

Thanks everyone. As if all this hasn't been hard enough hey!! I cant even mention the past, or Helen or my hurts, or fears, or lean on him at all about things now, he is so depressed. He was going to register with this new doctor..6 months ago! So I did it for him. I want him to be HONEST and yes ask for CBT and ADs. Thats a good point guys, he was on Fluoxetine before but he could try another type?

He texted back to say he was so grateful I booked it because he was tearful at work and struggling. Then he phoned and was upset and said he feels SOOO negative, about everything and about himself. I said.. you feel like a bad person don't you? He said I do.. and started crying! So he is very low again.

I arranged MC because its free through work and I need help being in an R with a depressed person and inevitable insecurites (yes Jon, its hard to hear your partner say they love you but cant feel anything!) and he needs help opening up to me. I also rang for an acupuncturist recommendation, as I think he needs acupuncture to ‘unblock’ him (he used to enjoy going).

Yes he’s worth it! and its nice you all think he is lucky to have me! K that’s interesting..they fall into a pit of despair. So this is all a textbook path hey??