Hey Startingover.. I don't know you, but I just saw this. Can't you just have the cs garnished? In IL, it is EASY to do! There, really, doesn't even have to be a reason! And, you should be able to handle the paperwork w/out an attorney.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.