Moving on with my life!

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Trying to keep boundaries. Respond when he is respectful. Ignore when he isn't.

St..on the cs issue. He has had to pay since oct. 08. Until the order was in effect he gave me one package of diapers a week for 2 months! He was pretty good and on time for the first 10 months as I really think that when he got his license back he would be able to take baby and then lower the cs. Once I said no to that he became later and later. He was running one payment behind (he pays me twice a month) and has asked me to skip payments 3 times. Once in June so he could buy his daughter a 8th grade grad present..and then again in November and now this month. All 3 times I have said no. Adding up in my head what he pays exw1, me, and then the cel phones and orthdontist for his other kids it is now almost 2/3 of his paycheck. He started struggling more when exw1 made him pay for the ortho and phones. Long run he isn't going to make it if this keeps up.