yeah, I supose I need to chill out a bit. I made the eye appt for him the same date and time as his dentist. I was writting it on his calendar when I noticed it. I told him don't worry, dentist appt's are hard to get keep that one and I'll reschedule the eye apt. Now that I live in the same town as him, when I drop our D off for dance, I feel compelled to go to his house instead of mine of the hour before I have to go back and pick up D from dance. So I go over there, sometimes he is there sometimes not. He hasn't said why do you come here (i did before, but I lived 45 mins away then) when he is home I make a stupid excuse, like I'm there to drop off D's books and her clothes and while I'm there I make some small talk. I was wondering if I should back off on that or not?