Good to hear this sort of success story and I believe I will join you at some point. Can you share some thoughts on what makes one successful during a time of transition?

You certainly lend some thought to the "Get a life" idea. I am moving in that sort of direction myself.

Also, although you sound very happy without X, many people on this board will want to know this: what do you note about your X's behavior that makes you think that he is coming out of the MLC?


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D