i have been following your thread and i cant really go into much right now but you are sabatoging your marriage! Stop it!!! Your husband is doing what you want him to do but you are not HEARING him or SEEING him! Stop it! Matter of fact you need to take a break from this board and focus on your husband before you really need to be on this board. Sorry if i come across harsh. go back and really read your entire stitch...really read it with a open heart and open mind and put yourself in your husband's shoes. he is not perfect but he is trying. it just doesn't seem good enough due to a lot of anger and resentment that you have. let that go...he is trying! i say this out of not wanting your marriage to break up.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo