Can I save my marriage?

[4luv]

hey britt,

hope you are taking it easy during the holiday season. i can't believe the position that i am in this christmas but i am making the choice to have a good holiday for me and my son.

as for your hubby's actions, i understand you being upset about the new year's eve plan. your hubby's follow on actions (the trying to appease you because he knows what he is doing or at least how he handled the situation is wrong) is something that my hubby does. my hubby said it like this to me the other day..."i do enough to keep you around and not too mad at me." Yea, sucks that he said it but even if he didn't ever SAY it, his actions SHOW that exact sentiment.

I say all this to say, look at what your husband is SHOWING you. that is why all these people are betting that there is another woman. the signs are there. I knew there was another woman in my case just by my hubby's signs. see, one thing is that most married people know that cheating is wrong and they can justify all they want but every once in a while it hits their conscience and thats when they gotta butter you up. just don't ignore the signs britt. and you can't simply ask him, or ask friends. no one told me...i snooped (and not just looking at email or phone) and thats how i found out what hubby was up to.