I am so proud of you for stepping up and getting that appointment set for bf. K is right, he's probably too depressed to help himself. You aren't doing it for him, but you are nudging him in the right direction.

I've said it before, pills aren't always the answer. There are cases I have seen though that were like night and day when meds were involved. I have personally watched someone who was so despondent that they were ready to kill themselves. Within 1 month of his doctor finding the right combination of meds he was fully participating in life and had found a new purpose. It was nothing short of miraculous.

I'm hoping and praying that this will be beneficial to you both.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!