No need to sneak, they are your children and you should be able to see them whenever you like right now since there is no real custody arrangement in place. That is one of the few advantages of limbo.
Why did she have cause to lose trust in you?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!