Prior to the last couple of weeks I have been doing pretty good. Felt like I was moving on nicely and GAL was improving. However, last night I found out the ex-W (pending) has already introduced the OM to some of her family, had him spend thankisgiving with her family and is even involving him with the family Christmas gift exchange. They have been dating for about four months, although they had a prior relationship about a year and half ago for a few months. In anycase, I knew this type of situation would eventually happen, just not so soon so, now I feel like I am at ground zero emotionally.
When I talked to her about this last night I told her I understood why she did not want to tell me but, that I was suprised none-the-less. Her response was that she did not think it was really any of my busness anymore and she is just living her life. She is just moving so dam fast. She then brought up every negative attribute about me and how good the OM treats her and how happy she is. She is defenitely in love or at least thinks she is. Couple all of this with the holidays and life is not much fun right now.
