HI Harry, glad you are hear now! I hope you and everyone else had a good Thanksgiving. Yeah, the b-day party was great. I had a bummer of a weekend though, just felt like crying and well did! OM still calls me, it is hurt to break up with someone around the holidays. I had to drop off daughter on thankgiving for dinner at 5 p.m. and I wanted to see the ex sister-in-laws new baby, everyone told me go see the baby, she is with your husband then the whole room was silent then they were like your ex husband is holding her. Everyone let us alone in the living room to talk. He asked me to pick up an electric shaver of our daughter for x-mas and he would pay me back later. The next day, I call him to find out the plan, said I could come over anytime, calls me back and asks if I would pick up milk, of course I said sure. I pick up daughter and he leaves for his brother's house and before he goes asks me if I'm going by the post office of course I said yes and he asked me to mail a bill for him. I asked him if it needed to be stamped for today and he said no. When I was at the post office my daughter made an interesting observation--ma, why did he ask you to mail his bill when he cold have brought it to the mailbox for pick up on Monday? and I was like yeah, doing little errands like we are married. My sister came over sat night to see the apt. I wanted her to see my dog that my ex-h is keeping for me. Didn't think ex was home but he was and the three of us sat down and had a good conversation, like old times. Like we were married. Well, I am babbling. I had a confusing weekend,why is he asking me to do all these little things for him--am I now slave girl??? I hope things are well with you--you will have to fill me in on your progress