I was posting to the thread of 'royalmessup' and you made a reference to where I was when you needed me? Well I am here now. I am happy to see that the bday party/dinner went great. Read the book, twice if you have to.
I am still in the same sitch. W and OM still live together although they have moved to new place together. But she has not refiled for divorce.
But this is your thread. The gifts must have hit the spot for him!!! I hope to keep up with your thread from now on.