Moving on with my life!

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Donna, BND, and Gabby: I hope the Alanon is helpful too. I haven't been in 2 years and then I had a different mindset. You cannot reason with a drunk. No way, no how. Even when they are sober they are so guilt ridden that they blameshift anyway.

I really don't know what to do on Xmas. My atty says since I have sole custody he does have the right to see baby on Xmas along with his family. He said there are some things I will have to suck up and do to keep the sole custody. This may be one. No, I don't plan on staying too long, but I will go. I just keep it in my mind that baby is visiting and the one he wants there...I am purely the bodyguard! LOL