From the D bomb to us sleeping together again a few days then h and I had fight because h said the sleeping together was just a pretense to appease me so he could be in house with no fights...then nothing for about 2 1/2 mos..then sex but NO ILY's...then at about 3 mos. I love yous again.
But don't judge your sitch by mine..all are similar and yet very different...I db'd my butt off....and yet lost no weight LOL....but am still db'ing and things are really good..but what's better is things are getting better all the time....