no, what I meant was that we've suffered and we've learned, and if we integrate this into our lives we are not as likely to make the same mistake again.
Ok, that works too. LOL But seriously, I am a little leary of my own judgment at this point, and tend to keep people at a distance. I hope I get past that.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
