We are still divorced have been since March. We dated from Mid June to 1st week in Aug. Then I drove by her house and seen OM car there. I pried and put pressure on her. She then broke off all dates with me. Son came to live with me at this time. This made things worse. I resolved myself to do whatever it takes to make him and her happy. Even if that meant us not being together. That was and is my way of showing unconditional love. I slowly had son stay more and more with her. Now he is there most all time. Almost a month ago I starte AD's. This has helped me to control my emotions. 2 weeks ago I decided to begin to really do things for myself. A couple of ladies are interested in me and this has helped me to gain confidence and feel good about me. This in turn is showing up in how I interact with her. And I believe that is why she asked me to go to the casino for a weekend when our tax refund comes back. But if I was spending weekends with my ex I would not be thinking at all about going out with anyone else.
