no, what I meant was that we've suffered and we've learned, and if we integrate this into our lives we are not as likely to make the same mistake again.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
