So, there you have it: Helen, the break up, the distance, everything. He is miserable, has been for a while, thought that if he would change you, he would be happy. Sorry, it doenst work this way...
And i have read somewhere that when they do come back and realise the situation is worse because on top of their issues, they created issues to the one they loved, they REALLY fall in despair.
He needs to click out of it. He needs help. He is lucky he has you around. I think you did a good job arranging the apt. It's not recsuing him, he probably feels too depressed to do it on his own.
You know how to reach me if you want... Stay strong Al, he is worth it, right? K
