Good for you, maybe you should change your number.
I see my son each morning, I carry him to school. Me and ex are talking, she even invited me to go to the casinos when we get our income tax refund. So things between me and her are better. It takes patience and a lot of it. Stay calm over everything. If you are doing things as a family then you are in a pretty good sitch at this time, especially with OM still in the picture. I can't say it enough though, cut off all ties with him, even abandon the stuff you have at his place. You made it this long without that stuff, so maybe you really don't need it.