I'm so happy for you! The love hasnt died. Wow, so he said what shall I do now and you told him to go... but he didnt and good job he didnt and had the balls to stay and talk to you! Sounds like it was a bit of a breakthrough conversation and that it helped get some understanding of each others perpsective?

How lovely you all woke up together in that big bed (and it is an enormous bed!!).

I'm so glad he wants to go to counselling too. Thats great news K. So these WAS are often pretty astute hey and say what some DBers say, without realising it! That he thinks you should both try and set aside overthinking the bad stuff so that it doesnt overwhelm you and leave no time to build new memories?

I think it would be a pity if you gave up now too.. seems to me you may be mining for diamonds here, as in getting to a real loving, committed relationship that can survive anything. Still rooting for you both!!
xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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