You're my inspiration as your H sounds kind of like my H. I don't think all the sorrys in the world are going to matter to H, it'll be the actions.
Quote: but it took patience, love, tolerance and focusing completely on myself...thinking what's wrong with me anytime I got angry, frustrated, etc..with him....often I was insecure, resentful, selfish, and so....did not tell him how to fix himself when I got mad....focused on what to do about me and how to avoid his actions causing me to be angry...ie. be less selfish, be less self-centered...etc. Try to see things from H's perspective..
This will help me, putting myself in H's shoes...the self-centered and selfishness have to be tamed..in me.
