Wow..as I was typing the above my text went off...it was exh but I didn't look at it until I was done with my post. He said "did you get my email?" It had only been 10 minutes. Just now he sent "WTF! DO NOT IGNORE ME".
Set a boundary on the texts now. Then act as if you assume he's drunk when he text yells at you b/c honestly it is drunk or insane sounding. I have NEVER sent OR received a text like that even when h and I were at each other's throats, let alone for a 10 min delay. That is officially nuts. You can't have that in your life. So tell him to text only for real emergencies, or baby related items that can't wait AND NO DRUNK MESSAGES and if he says "WHAT DRUNK MESSAGES" tell him you assumed he was drunk b/c they're so over the top and wildly inappropriate he'd HAVE to be drunk to text YOU like that!! IS he stomping his feet and holding his breath til he turns blue too? Good grief.... j- Blood is boiling now! God calm me down.
Assuming he's drunk or insane may help you with staying calm. It's as if he's a homeless wacko that yells at you b/c you remind him of a mean teacher he had in 2nd grade. Would you really get mad or shrug it off as the ramblings of a lunatic? (The latter...so do the same for your X h. He is out of control now...sooo weird and beyond the pale).
See I do much better when I don't like him
I can see why... J-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
