Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

[quote]You need to know that as long as he is in the affair, he is gone.
He is living in a very different land. His actions are very selfish and he does not care what these actions do to you. Nothing right now will make him turn to you. But your actions will chip away.[/quote]

Cutter said this to avermont back in early November and I think P, you should think about how it relates to your W and I am putting it on my thread because I am finally feeling like my actions are chipping away at him (finally meaning this last month or so instead of the other 7 months he has been in the A).