Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

Yes, he is cake eating but I am doing a Plan A of sorts. So it is part of the whole thing. (Plan A is where you improve yourself, avoid love busting comments, try to meet your spouse's top emotional needs and then it is supposed to be followed by Plan B after a certain amount of time. Closing the bakery! Just haven't made it to plan B yet. There is a small chance that the WS ends the A during Plan A before ever having to go to Plan B. Very small chance. this is from Dr. Harley of marriagebuilders.com but is better described in his book, Surving an Affair.)

Newmama, I am actually getting a bit fed up with how hot you keep describing yourself.

Hahaha! I do not want to come across like that! I am just trying to explain that I am wearing more flattering clothing than before! And I didn't want "pajamas" to come across as flannel with pink stars and yellow moons or something (although flannel is sooooo comfortable damn it! But husbands seem to hate the flannel PJs on their wives!)

Like I said,I am losing baby weight and a poster did say WH sees me as a "mom" so unless it is a MILF, I need to amp up the sex appeal! So i am working with what I got and noticing compliments from people.

And yes, I am still feeding him.
He was the main cook for the last 5 years of our relationship. I was the sous chef I guess or the prep cook. So I am improving myself by cooking and he is noticing finally!

I realize you are teasing me! BUt I felt like responding anyway!