I'm happy for you, Benotafraid. Have a great Xmas with your family. That is something that you have and OW can never have with him. It is a wonderful prize that is often overlooked. I hope your children will continue to talk to their Dad about how important their family is to them. I believe that is a good part of what brought him around to the right decision. A good book, that you both can read and discuss, is After the Affair by Janis Spring. And again, I recommend a Retrouvaille weekend to put the past behind you and make the future a happier one.
