Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

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Update:
Well, tonight was fine! Phew! I made sure to wear one of my new "tighter" fitting shirts, flattering jeans, wore my contacts again, did hair and make-up right before he came over. I greeted him warmly with our son and made sure to LOOK HIM IN THE EYE. He returned eye contact.

Newmama, I am actually getting a bit fed up with how hot you keep describing yourself. I actually keep threatening to come over there on a plane, but it'd actually just for you. If I EVER make it over there, me and yo and going to destroy WH ...

Did he respond to any of it?

Something I am working on is asking him more questions about himself BUT it's hard because I tend to ask about activities/events which means I might be finding info about what he does with OW. So I am trying to ask about things about his past, likes/dislikes, you know, about HIM, but without sounding like I am interviewing him or being obvious about what I'm doing.

So I made those attempts and I noticed that he was bringing up more conversation on his own! I can't help but feel bad that I stopped doing this when we were still together.(I have been the talker, he has been the listener)[/quote[

Did all that with W .. she loved to talk about herself and didn't ever talk about me and W ... I put it down to being in the A and being bloody selfish.

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So we ate dinner,

Why are you STILL feeding him dinner?

watched 2.5 men that had tons of infidelity references...then he cleaned up the kitchen, lingered, and just stood there by the tree, kind of drawing out things to talk about before saying goodbye.

He is still cake eating but I know you know that.