At home Stewing now...may go to supermarket or walmart just to get out. Wife and i just got the tree!!! bittersweet though. I'm really restraining myself from R talk. Proud of me, because just a week ago i'd be starting a "can we talk" talk. I now know better.
instead of "can we talk" which sounds so approval seeking, as in "will you allow me the privilege of talking to someone as great as you because a sniveling little twerp of a man like myself doesn't deserve such an incredible honor...."
If she's having an affair, I would be saying... "WE NEED TO TALK NOW!"