@newmama... my lawyer said that I get more protection filing for D instead of just support. So, now that H is withholding money, I need all the protection I can get. You know, I feel a weight lifted off of me. H is going to haaaaate giving me half of his pension, stocks and retirement fund. The big price for his A.
@P17... you always see the opposite side so well. Oh, yes. I'm much happier having my kids with me on Xmas and they WANT to be with me. Xmas eve I'll have my kids and parents with me and be celebrating with my new friends at candlelight mass and having a wonderful dinner with all of them(a 180). WAH will be with OW and her kids watching them open gifts and their different Xmas traditions probably thinking of our kids. Yeah, he might wonder if what he is doing is right. I will have the better end of the stick!! I'm working on making sure the kids have a good time and fun memories in spite of the sitch. And I'll post it to my FB page too.
I'll have my precious kids to hug and kiss and I hope it eats away at him to not be with them. But... I think the man is lacking a heart or can wall off his emotions so well that it won't even affect him. Must suck to be him.
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10
Oh, yes. I'm much happier having my kids with me on Xmas and they WANT to be with me. Xmas eve I'll have my kids and parents with me and be celebrating with my new friends at candlelight mass and having a wonderful dinner with all of them(a 180). WAH will be with OW and her kids watching them open gifts and their different Xmas traditions probably thinking of our kids. Yeah, he might wonder if what he is doing is right. I will have the better end of the stick!! I'm working on making sure the kids have a good time and fun memories in spite of the sitch. And I'll post it to my FB page too. 
