Hi AW, Im sorry your having a rough day. Did you set up a separate bank account yet?

Did he text all of those nasty things to you? As hard as it is, you need to print them, or send them to an email, you need to save them.

Your insurance will pay for therapy. All you have to do is go to your regular doctor and ask for a referral. I really think that it would be good for you. Has the military one stop hotline gotten back to you yet?

If he starts getting nasty, end the conversation. You need to be establishing respect, his respect for you, and your respect for yourself. Dont fight with him, dont let him yell at you, dont let him call you names. Stand up for yourself to him. He is in the wrong, he is making the bad choices, this is his fault. I dont care what the problem in your marriage was, his behavior is unacceptable.

Go dark, he is acting like a pretty normal walk away husband, and you dont need the abuse from him.

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...