Originally Posted By: Jstar
i'm so glad P17 you commented because he called a couple more times and finally left a msg. you w left her d whoah. how are you doing visitations or not with children? did she set something up or did you tell her what her visitation could be?


Of couyrse he called .. that's called .. errr ... script. And guess what, he will call again ... and again ... and again. Ignore him.

My W is actually D's step-mum so she has no 'rights' to see D. However as a dad who fought for 7 years to see his D, that doen't actually mean jack sh*t to me. There is a lot more to being a parent than havign a pair of genitals and being in the right place at the right time, if you see what I mean.

Anyway, I always considered my W as my D's mum (so she had two mums). Unfortunately when W left, while she kept up contact via me with D, she NEVER EVER asked ONCE bout D and how she was doing. I am, still to this day, baffled by this. My W always wanted children and appreciated how good a dad I was (as we fought for 7 years) but this just throws me. I would put it down to FOG if it wasn't so definite (she has removed all pics of me and D from FB and Bebo).

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this time is i hate you you hate me, way things ended, this conversations is being recorded, i'm coming over tomorrow to give you money and take daughter with me, please give me a call or text me how she is doing, i used to tell you how she was.


CIT .. power gamre. How do you know P? Cause I did it ... it's a power game. Set boundaries, reasonable boundaries (it's tempting to set boundaries to p*s off H but that's not the point). BUT boundaries have consequences.

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i was about to just write back <SNIP>


Have you actually set the boundary? Yes? Then why are you writing this cr*p for? You've set it. She broke it. Consequence engaged .. everybody put pon their big pants because Jstar is going to enforce what was said .. yeah? End of story ...

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i feel like i should send to the effect of:<SNIP>


2x4 .. Jstar, when will you get it?

You've told her, yeah? Then why do you keep telling her? You're done ....

Last edited by P17; 12/18/09 04:11 AM.

Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

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