let him spew his bad negative stuff and try very hard not to let it hurt you. what he says now is not the husband you were married to.
it must be in the water for wah, mine upset me so much i just about threw up. i won't talk to him and he is pushing to see daugther, i even sent him freaking boundaries he just keeps testing.
stop talking to him. go dark.
have you gone to a base/fort some military?
he's telling you he took his friends out to hurt and upset you, don't fall for it, the saying is take what he says as 1/2 true 1/2 crap and lies.
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline